Matt Heafy, vocalist/guitarist of Trivium, had a hilarious onstage slip-up over the weekend—and he didn’t shy away from sharing it with the world. In a self-deprecating post, Heafy uploaded a video of the moment to social media, issuing a mock apology for the gaffe.
While hyping the crowd mid-show, Heafy attempted to rally fans to raise their phone lights, lighters, or flashlights into the air. Instead, he accidentally told the audience to raise their Fleshlights, before immediately catching the mistake and correcting himself.
“Fleshlights?! I meant flashlights!” Heafy laughed, visibly amused by the blunder.
The clip has the potential to go viral—and hopefully not inspire anyone to take the joke literally. After all, mosh pits don’t exactly need the hygiene bar lowered any further.
Trivium are currently wrapping up the North American leg of their “Ascendancy” 20th anniversary tour alongside Bullet For My Valentine (celebrating 20 years of “The Poison”), August Burns Red, and Bleed From Within. Remaining dates include:
05/04 Toronto, ON – Great Canadian Resort Theatre
05/06 Washington, D.C. – The Anthem
05/07 New York, NY – The Rooftop at Pier 17
05/09 Bethlehem, PA – Wind Creek Bethlehem – Wind Creek Event Center
05/11 Nashville, TN – The Pinnacle
05/13 Corbin, KY – Corbin Arena
05/14 Atlanta, GA – Coca-Cola Roxy Theatre
05/17 Charlotte, NC – Skyla Credit Union Amphitheatre
05/18 Raleigh, NC – Red Hat Amphitheater
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I feel so seen rn 🥲
“Accidentally”
I was there it was a great moment 😅
Ryan LeBlanc I was too! What a time to be alive😂
Ryan LeBlanc same. It was hilarious
Ryan LeBlanc shit was so funny bro haha
Accidentally on purpose
I was there for this, hilarious 😂
Kelly Gagnon
I was there for that LOL
Hahaha love it!
Let me guess dying in your arms
Ray Ray nope, it was during The Departure, I think
Andrea Chand yea, he pulls out the acoustic for the departure
Andrea Chand ohhh yea
Andrea Chand quite sad I forgot that already as I just saw them April 25th 😂
Ray Ray Fair lol. I saw them just last night
It’s just engagement farming. get your bag, I guess.
Ron Vorndran we were there! Lmao
Jose Medina yea we were haha
Kyle Seaman ☠️☠️☠️
Life on the road be tough lol see you in New York
“Accidentally”
Omfg 😂😂😂
Dude this was hilarious haha the Boston stop was OP
You for the quotation marks on accidently.
I mean Johnny Franck says that exact shit during Bilmuri sets. 🤷
Nicholas Guye but he’s cool
LMAO I was there in Boston when he did it and it was glorious 🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious lol…. Ghost fans will be actually raising these I bet…
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He did it on purpose in Toronto last night 🤣
Pause
It was no accident, was it Matt?
Matthew kiichichaos Heafy es todo un genio en la vocalización regala un me gusta matt
What does he think he’s performing at a FFDP show ?
What’s he like 🤣
I conveniently had mine.
“accidentally”
Adam Wagner
Aye I was thereeeee
Did they?
Talk about ascendancy
Well, it’s the right fanbase for it. 🤷🏻♂️
The following shows after this are gonna get really weird 😂😂
Jake Borders for sure. Might as well have fun with it at this point.
Jason Wahoski Sr. Time for them to start making some new merch? I think we can call it that
Jake Borders Yeah this is gonna end up being a thing 🤣
Jake Borders I’ll be there Sunday what should I bring
We’re never going to get a normal Trivium show after this….
“Accidently”
Joshua Shadow That’s what I’m saying. It definitely was not “accidental”. 😅
Lol I bet people who listen to trivium know what those fleshlights are ,one of the most lamest metal bands ever ,definitely not heavy gotta get go listen to Deathcore or something because that’s real metal
Austin Charles Mitchell sir you have a Drake profile picture
Craig Hough and a blink 182 background 🤣
John Owenby and a weiner in the butt
Austin Charles Mitchell
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Austin Charles Mitchell says the dude who is single, with a Drake pfp, a blink-182 banner, and is incapable of growing a mustache. You think 5 Flavor Fruit Punch is a death metal band right?
CJ Hargest they aren’t death metal but they can get pretty heavy at times
Austin Charles Mitchell lol FFDP hey 😂😂
Austin Charles Mitchell playing gatekeeper but likes FFDP lmao
Austin Charles Mitchell peak metalhead
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Austin Charles Mitchell Stop trying to gatekeep “real metal”, you just sound incredibly moronic
Lmao I was there and it was hilarious! Heafy’s a fucking stud on stage and their set was amazing! The whole show from start to finish got better and better with each band!🤘🏻🍻
“Accidentally”.
Johnny Lima
How fucked would it have been it someone actually did it. 🤣
I was there in Boston it was so hilarious 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Evan Stephenson yes it was. I don’t think there was a single person with a straight face when he said that 🤣
Scott Oliver
Kelsey Oliver lol
I’m just here for the comments
“Accidentally” rrrriiiiggghhhhttt 😏
“accidentally”
Oh my god that’s the funniest thing I’ve ever heard
Wish I got it on video
Rich Ducheneau Jr. Don’t wry some people did lol
Mats streaming during Covid was the funniest crap I’ve ever watched.
Kayleigh Farrow
Is it a sin
To have a wank
To fall asleep?
Insomniac
Afraid of sileeeeeeence
I’m buying myself a fleeeeeeeeshliiiiiiiiight
Alexandros I almost forgot haha
Lmao Derek Cook Andrew TL Guimond
Donn Jr Cook lmao was gunna tag yall earlier
I seen this clip on TikTok he shared it on their trivium page lmao
lmao awesome
First mistake was paying to see trivium
“Accidentally” lol
Joe Fitzgerald !!! It’s the Fleshlight incident we got to witness at the show on Friday!! 🤣
Ok Thad! 🤣🤣🤣
“Accidentally”
Mike Depinto
Boston, I was there for this, almost passed out laughing lmao
Omar Garza
Kris Gerhard hell yeah
Well did they?
He was serious, they had the Matt heafy hummer model at the merch stands
Stephan Cameron hahahahha
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Honestly disappointed no one took the opportunity at the Toronto show last night to bring one 🤣
Too bad he didn’t say it before Pull Harder on the Strings of Your Martyr 😂
Now I see why Heather Curviel is a big fan.
Marcus Ortegon exactly why lmao
It’s like how you accidentally say orgasm instead of organism in a biology class
“accidentallyx
“Accidentally”
The meta AI is going wild… suggesting I ask about “Fleshlight mishaps in live performances”
I guess he knows his fan base
i fucking love Matt. ever the troll lmao
“Accidentally” 🤣
😅 then show your flashing butt plugs
The one guy who came prepared 😤
Makes sense. Definitely a bunch of wankers
Maybe it was intentional to be funny
Justin Myers
Cause they are all virgins lol
I was there! He was dying when he said it lol
Battle Moran
Chris Gulik
Knowing Matt Heafys humor, this was probably not a mistake. 🤣
Why did I get weird looks when I did it
I mean he has a point. The typical trivium listener never gets laid. Even if they do they’ve listened enough of it to regain their virginity
Calm down yous guys… we all know every once in a while the accent slips.
Idk why he felt the need to issue a statement apologizing. Come on now
Brandon Watson the apology was in jest
That’s gonna get messy
So how many of them did?
Nobody in the crowd is likely to have one handy (pun), but hey, Rock n Roll
Matthew kiichichaos Heafy
Don’t bring em up too fast. Some things shouldn’t rain Down from the Sky.
Proof we need more Crotchduster!
Raise em up fellas cmon!
Simon Jones Jonny Cameron better bring them when they come back
Scott Booth I don’t have one but I’ll be sure to buy one for it 🤣
There’s gonna be some awkward silence on the tour bus!!! 😂🤣😂🤣
Ryan Leigh O’Connor
So who cares
Bloodstocks gonna be fun.
Was at this show! Matt is awesome! Haha
Daniel Owen Logan Evans 🤣
Luke Owen
Would be awesome if asked everyone to pull guard at triv gig
Richard Shaw 👀🤣
Faye Christina LaVey Bloodstock will be interesting 😄
I was there!
Hilarious little Freudian slip!
“accidentally” hehehehe
You know matt just got done blowing a fleshlights back out before the show 🤣🤣🤣
Flashlight*
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The question is how many people had one on hand?